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I have never believed in stereotyping before, but I just have to admit (after a very hard lesson) that I don't believe you can find any men with sincerety in Sharm el sheikh anymore. Here is my story...
I had a holiday in sharm el sheikh last January with my 3-year old son. All we were looking for was sun, beach, dolphin shows and ice cream. Also I thought I would be very safe from all sorts of gigolos, since I had a small child with me all the time. I met Ahmed Nagah on our first day there, because we went out on the sea to snorkle on one of those diving boats and he was working there as a dive master. (he works for Bright Shark diving center at the beach of Royal Albatros Hotel in Nabq, Sharm el sheikh).
I didnt pay any attention to him on the boat except that he was playing with my son there all day. He overheard me asking someone else how much should I pay for a taxi to get to Naama Bay, because all the taxi drivers had been trying to rip us off badly until then. He offered to show us how to get to Naama Bay that night by blue bus, because he was going there to do something else. When we were in Naama, he started to woo me very insistingly saying he fell in love with me as soon as he saw me. He seemed so very sincere and we had a lovely week together taking my son to different places. When i returned home, he called me everyday, repeating how much he loved me and needed me and how I have to come back to him, because he couldnt live without me. I couldnt resist that and went back to sharm to see him in February for two weeks. To be able to stay in the same flat, we had to get married on paper (orfi). After the first day he started to behave extremely distant and after that he was basically running away from me. He had lied to me on the phone that he would have a holiday for those two weeks, but was working every day for about 12 hours. That he blamed on his brother, who was his boss and according to him had denied his holiday a day before I came, because he was jealous. I ended up being alone the whole time and he has admitted now on the phone that it was a bet between him and his friend:whether he can make me come back or not. According to what he had sayed his friend told him that none of the European women ever come back, because they just want to have fun and use the Egyptian men. The ones that do come back must be a complete whores, and if I do come back to him he should use me sexually as much as he can and do nothing else for me. And that he did. Hes also admitted he didnt love me but was saying it just to make me return to him (to win his bet). Well, I think its a bit obvious that those two weeks with him there were very akward, but he doesnt let go now. Still two months later now, he keeps calling, saying that even though he didnt love me before, now he does and wants me to come back AGAIN so that he could fix everything!! He keeps repeating that it was a stupid game his friend set him up for and he regrets it and that I was his first victim. But what kind of a person uses another human being for 14 days just to follow some stupid game or a dirty old man's fantasy????? And if that is the guidelines that are handed to young starters, how could there be any decent men in that enviroment?
Obviously Im not going anywhere and I have stated to him in SMS, email and on the phone several times that I dont want to hear from him ever again and I have blocked his continuous facebook friend requests, but last weekend for example he called 9 times!! What on earth does he want from me and how can I make him stop. I hate his guts, but now he thinks that because he told me the truth everything is fine!!!????!!!!
Ive now come to realize that hed lied to me about everything: his age, birthday (he conveniently had one when I was there in January, but its actually in September), having no previous girlfriends, etc. Basically EVERYTHING you told someone when you get to know them
Has he done this to anybody else? Please contact me, if you have any information about him!!
I just got an email from UK. There is someone there who is also married to ahmed nagah and was pregnant for him earlier, but lost the baby. Apparently while he was constantly calling me trying to make me move back to Egypt, he was also calling her begging her to try to have another baby with him....
Sorry to tell you, but most of the guys in the tourist areas are only after your body (sex), money and a visa to a "rich" country. For many years I lived in Africa and I have seen the "game" they played, many times. All of this is not "new", it has been like this for many, many years!!!
The best advice I can give you: do not fall in love !!! Have fun, enjoy your vacation, but never let your heart get broken.
Hi, I am so sorry to hear you had such a terrible experiance, I too went to sharm on holiday and met an Egyptian, he was The dive guide on the boat, ( Mohamed soudany), we meet up in the evening had a wonderful time, I fell in love, we fell in love and a happy ending after 9 years we at still together, there are some good guys out there.
