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Salam!
As an introduction, Iīm Martina, come from Slovakia. ..once, 15 months ago when I was looking for any informations on the net, concerning my study, I have met an Egyptian man in my age. He has appeared as a very clever man, we were talking about an oriental culture, history because I am fond of this all and what I liked the most, he didnīt ask me about my personal life and s.., so we became friends. ..till one day, after 4 months he told me he loves me. "sure he loves me - as every Arab, Turk etc. who gets to know you" .. he said, he couldnīt stand if I refused him. We stopped talk to each other (better said, I stopped) just by letters, because in this period I didnīt have an internet at home, he sent me ring and many presents. As an unofficial engagement. However, he still sent me letters, every week, and one day Fedex was founding me again at my school (kind).. after four months he got to know me to his parents, brother Bechoy by webcam and with his cousins, aunts, uncles and said me he wants to marry me after my University. My parents also knew about him sure. I was happy. He was great and careful. The first love in my life. I has started to trust him more and more, day by day.
In May this year, my mum called me to the work, we are going on holiday to Egypt 5 days later. I was ... I canīt describe my feelings those time. I phoned him immediatly, because he comes from Ismailia, to travel to Hurghada on Monday, the day of our coming.
After we come at the hotel I was so exciting. I said to myself "a year since our first meeting on the net, we will see live, face to face" ..he came.. to the hotel, reception.. so strong an embrace. I felt so great. My mum embraced him too.
We spent one memorable week. When we were saying goodbye to each other, there were tears, and you can imagine. He sweared to all Saints, he will come to Europe for me. His uncle from Netherlands, who I have known, will help him. I believed, believed as a fool.. I admonished him, it isnīt so easy as he imagines, but he said, everything will be fine, I will come to you in September, I love you, and you are the only person in my life. I trusted him, because first I felt him, and I has known his parents, and ohter relatives of him. After I asked him when he will come this month, he said he just need a little time to arrange everything, but as I know him, I also know he canīt come, although he made a new passport, which he showed me ...Next week he still sent me sms but I ignored, I canīt trust him more..
After reading this story, I just want to ask you to give me your opinion.     Shokran


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Don't believe him, Martina. You are not the one in his life. All of them are the same.

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Hello dear Martina,

I don't know what happened to you in this situation, but I would have been very hesitant and careful.  It takes a long time to get to know a person and see what you will have in life together.  I really wish you the best, and even though this is a response from a long time ago, something in my instinct tells me that he isn't 100% honest with you or could give you what you want out of life.  You seem like a very intelligent woman who can offer so much to the world.  Don't let yourself get used or abused.  Do you know what I mean?  I sort of get the feeling that I am sure you are beautiful and have a lot going for yourself, that he found the "golden ticket".  He found somebody with it all, but what does he have to offer you?  I am not saying he has to be a millionare or anything, but I would have strongly advised you to bring it down a notch and focus on your studies and your future, career and whatever life has to offer.  Go visit Egypt.  It's a wonderful place to see and there are many wonderful people there.  You must be careful over the internet.  If you respond to my post, I hope to contact you through this. Take care!


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